“Hip Hip” Hooray!

IMG_7686aI am not an expert in sobriety but I have found support in the 12 step program, Alanon, as well as extensive counseling. Additionally, I have had the joy of watching family members successfully and continually work a 12 step program to achieve and maintain their sobriety.

I lay in bed after extensive hip surgery and it got me thinking. Is it possible to parallel a 12 step program/lifestyle to a physical recovery? I believe the answer is…yes.

I suffered debilitating hip pain for two years and received several misdiagnoses (one of which included uncontrolled anxiety/chronic pain)! I became powerless over my pain, my quality of life deteriorated drastically, and my much needed sleep was a distant memory. I did not want to accept the fact that I was powerless over my situation and that I could not manage and fix this problem. But for quite some time, I too, was forced to believe that maybe this WAS in my head and this is what the medical field means by chronic pain brought on by uncontrolled anxiety.

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“The first step prepares us for a new life which we can achieve only by letting go of what we cannot control, and by undertaking one day at a time the monumental task of setting our world in order through a change in our own thinking. I will dedicate myself to managing my own life and only mine.

So I dedicated myself to finding answers in hopes of improving my quality of life. I wouldn’t accept the diagnosis and searched for a Dr. who would believe me. I chose to live one day at a time. And that truly did help me get through the days and weeks! I believe in a higher power, prayed to that higher power, and continually asked for help and guidance. In turn, I was given answers to my physical pain and offered a solution with hip surgery.

The parallelism of a 12 step program and a physical recovery from an injury isn’t a perfect one and I don’t claim them to be. But I can tell you, there are similarities. Eye opening acceptance, lessons in humility as your husband bathes you, a commitment in achieving wellness, willingness to keep pursuing and investing in your health. And a continued vigilance and attunement in a higher power.

It will be a long recovery. Four weeks on a walker, a hip brace and extensive physical therapy. 4-6 month full recovery time. I feel sorry for myself at times. Then I pick myself back up and keep going. Just like many of you, in recovery, I am living my life one day at a time. And on really bad days….
one step at a time.

Keep Trudging,

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Colleen

 

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